CLIENT STORIES

Every client’s path is unique. These stories share some of the journeys people have been on and the changes they’ve experienced. If you prefer a shorter read, you’ll find extracts woven throughout the site. Even if your own situation looks different, you may still find something that resonates - you’re very welcome here.

Megan - Couples Coaching

I’ve felt so safe and heard and understood. I could say the weirdest thing around sex or intimacy, and Claudia would normalise it. You can bring anything to the table and work on anything. When I first started I thought it would be all about the sex, but we’ve also done a lot of foundational work on our intimacy, which has been really important. Intimacy happens everywhere, not just in the bedroom.

I’m realising that we deserve pleasure, and that we deserve be happy together and to have fun, that’s been a big shift for me. A lot of times I used to feel very defeatist and negative. Now I’m like: we deserve this, we deserve joy!

It’s definitely been empowering. I can have a lot of guilt. Feeling like things are my fault. I now have a strong sense that I’m a good person. I’m cultivating that within the relationship. That we’re both good people. Recognising that even when we have disagreements, or arguments, it doesn’t make either of us bad or wrong. It’s just different perspectives.

Claudia is really relatable, very professional but also very real, which allows us to relax and be like that too. It can sound scary to see a sex coach but everything is broken down so it feels manageable. It’s so lovely to have the pressure taken off, to have her hold space and facilitate, so you don’t have to try and work everything out just between the two of you. Having an objective viewpoint has been the biggest thing for me, that’s been really helpful.

Coaching is something I think every couple should do, and even earlier on in the relationship. We’ve made so many amazing shifts, I think we sometimes forget how far we’ve come!

Emily - Individual Coaching

I’m much more aware of my sexual nature now…and how fundamental that is to me. It’s made sense of why so many things haven’t worked before. Now I see the beauty and possibility of who I am.

I started off saying ‘I’m not getting much sensation, I’m not really connected’ and now I’ve had lots of that – sensation and connection, and it’s been great!

Before I was feeling like I was missing something. I wasn’t really feeling anything, and starting to get quite resentful about it, and that affecting the relationship. I knew I wasn’t really getting what I needed but didn’t know how to identify that or how to change it.

Now I can name and advocate for my sexual needs. Having validation about how slow it’s ok to go. I’ve always sensed I’m like that but now I know it’s ok to be like that. Knowing how subtle the sensations can be, owning I need that, and that can then allow me to go to other places. It’s also given me more awareness of what my partner needs.

I’ve let go of the belief that there’s something wrong with me, that there was something physically wrong with me. I’ve let go of that. I let go of feeling that no one would ever be able to meet me in the way I want to be met - and now it’s happened! I now believe that the connection, pleasure and attunement I’m longing for is there. It feels like a rare and precious thing, and it’s been proved possible!

I’ve found Claudia very intuitive, despite the distance on zoom, she’s really able to attune and pick up insightful things. I also appreciate her honesty and openness about how things are for her. It’s really good modelling and helps me relax and do that too.

I really enjoyed the experiential approach. Working directly with sexual energy with a practitioner is something I haven’t done before and I appreciated the space to do that. All of the different tools are great, and the pace at which we do things really works.

Claudia’s been brilliant! I wasn’t sure how working online would be and I’ve been really surprised. I wouldn’t have imagined we’d be able to do all the things we’ve done. It’s been really powerful.

Mads - Individual Coaching

Working with Claudia I’ve really tuned into my body and what it’s telling me, which is really, really amazing! Before these sessions I hadn’t slowed down in years, I just filled my time with doing stuff. Now rather than multi-tasking, doing ten things at once, I slow down - take time to listen to myself, time to rest, time to enjoy being outside.

I’m really feeling into my body to see if something feels good, or if a connection with a person feels good. I’ve got a connection with my body which I didn’t have before.

I’ve learnt that I can connect to my womb, and I didn’t think that was a thing; to know that I have a fiery energy there, that that exists. I’ve felt sexual desire again, which I thought I’d completely lost, so that’s been great!

I really valued how Claudia taught me how to communicate with my partner. A big shift has been to slow things down, talking form a place of feeling and not blame, and being able to drop into the moment more. I’ve noticed shifts in our relationship since I’ve been doing that, which is really cool.

From working with Claudia I’ve learned to show myself a lot more compassion. I’ve been letting go of how I’m perceived, and of seeking external validation, and focusing on myself, which has fed back into my relationship. Believing in myself more has had a positive affect because I’m showing up for myself, letting go of negative thoughts about myself. I’m giving myself a lot of self-love and am feeling really good about me, which I haven’t felt in so long. Bringing that confidence into the relationship, that’s been really good. I’ve been with an excitement and a drive for life, fully appreciating life!

Claudia has a loving warm energy, she’s very accepting and nothing feels closed off, which is great. I really liked how she always asked me what I wanted to do in sessions, which made me think about my wants. The pace is very gentle and personalised and it feels really safe.

Anne - Individual Coaching

Coaching with Claudia’s made me more at ease with myself. It’s given me a lot of inner strength and the belief that I’m a good person. That’s something I never thought I’d have, or if I have had it, it’s been fleeting and easily taken away. But I feel like it’s pretty solid now. I have no problem reassuring myself that I’m a good person trying my best.

One of the biggest realisations has been understanding triggering, and that nothing constructive can come when I’m triggered, that’s helped me staying calm. Validating the triggers has also really helped - it’s helped me to understand why certain situations bring up certain emotions - healing the inner child in a way. I’m able to stay calmer with my partner, and with my son.

I really appreciate Claudia’s insight and intuition. She very, very quickly gets to the core issue and intuitively knows what needs to be addressed. It feels very proactive. While some of it can be painful it’s definitely beneficial. I would say that everyone should have this! It’s a really good way to become a better person, a more compassionate and understanding person. I’d definitely recommend it.

Keren - Couples Coaching

I came on this journey very much believing that I was broken sexually, and probably a lot of the time that I didn’t deserve to feel pleasure. After working with Claudia I don’t feel broken anymore....With things like touch, we’re re-learning. You can’t just guess what someone likes, you have to communicate.

One of the biggest changes is that when one of us gets triggered we don’t automatically spiral. We allow the other person to express how they feel in a safe space. Before I wasn’t able to sit and listen and say nothing. I always used to be ‘Right, let’s find a solution!’, but now I know my partner needs to feel what they feel. I didn’t realise how powerful that is.

Emotions for me hadn’t felt safe, same with feeling vulnerable. Now I’m starting to feel more and more that it’s safe for me to be vulnerable, to express my emotions and be seen and heard. Now we both allow ourselves to feel what we feel.

There’ve been so many ‘Ah-ha’ moments, seeing patterns I didn’t even realise were playing out. Previously I didn’t feel worthy of being in a relationship, and of being in my current relationship, but now I can own my worthiness and what I bring. Shifting into this comes hand in hand with accepting my neurodivergent brain and liking it. It’s been empowering. Lots of new beliefs coming through.

In sessions I can be myself and Claudia fully accepts it. There are never any negative comments. How she holds space is completely non-judgemental and safe. She has such knowledge, skills and expertise, we would never have been able to go on the journey without that. It takes a very dynamic person to hold the space for a couple and she does that really well. All of it’s been brilliant.

Skye - Individual Coaching

The experiential aspect of the coaching has been an unexpected joy. I thought it would be really talky and heady, but this is much more of a body-based experience, which is what I’ve needed.

The process of practising boundaries and working with triggers has made a change in my relationships very quickly, that’s been huge. I now believe I can love people in different ways, and it can be nourishing rather than destructive or harmful, and that I deserve that. That’s the big thing, that I absolutely deserve that. It’s empowering.

I’ve learned how big my heart is and how I’m able to love a lot. At the same time I’ve learned a lot about my energy and my nervous system, and the ability to regulate on my own. I’ve learnt much more about the nuance and subtlety of what I need, it’s getting more and more refined, which is a really satisfying process.

I really appreciate the sense of safety in the sessions, and the co-regulation aspect of the work has been really healing for me. Claudia’s softness and vulnerability has made me realise a lot about what I need for support. I really love how she offers choices and options, and it always feels very personal to me.

What I would say to someone considering this is that sex and relationships connects to so much more than you might think. I had doubts: ‘Do I really need specific sex and relationship coaching?’, and I now feel ‘Absolutely!’. I’m a massive advocate for Claudia and the space she offers. It’s very human, not clinical at all, and it really works on zoom, which surprised me! I’d highly recommend it.

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